"Stop finding fault in your mate, because God has made no perfect person."
"Speak victory over your marriage."
"Always know that God is your source, that supplies you with your resources!"
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Simone's "Ways to improve your relationship"
Remember we are a team
Respect each other
Never threaten each other
Laugh at each others mistakes
Spend 3 weekends alone together per year
Surprise each other
Refuse to hold a GRUDGE
smile often
Check in with each other while apart
Give each other space
Kiss everyday
Touch several times a day
Plan for good times
Create magical moments
Ask for what you want or need
Speak your truth RESPECTFULLY
Schedule date nights regularly
Thursday, January 16, 2014
Kim and Shreatha's advice on being a godly wife...
"Keep everything in your house, it is not for the world."
"Don't change...always be yourself."
"Tell him about your high school classmates because we all stick together."
"Speak whatever you want in Life, if you want a mate tell God. Speak over your life."
"The work doesn't start till after you marry..."
"Don't take advice from a person that has no idea what they are talking about."
"It can be amazing or horrible! Make sure you do not unequally yoke yourself with your mate. Once you're married, you are not suppose to divorce unless he commits adultery. Marriage is for life!"
"Many are not willing to put in the work when it gets tough...I choose to stand by him and honor my vow."
"Don't change...always be yourself."
"Tell him about your high school classmates because we all stick together."
"Speak whatever you want in Life, if you want a mate tell God. Speak over your life."
"The work doesn't start till after you marry..."
"Don't take advice from a person that has no idea what they are talking about."
"It can be amazing or horrible! Make sure you do not unequally yoke yourself with your mate. Once you're married, you are not suppose to divorce unless he commits adultery. Marriage is for life!"
"Many are not willing to put in the work when it gets tough...I choose to stand by him and honor my vow."
Rasheda's take on keeping it spicy...
"The same thing you did to get your mate is what you HAVE to do to KEEP them."
"It takes nothing out of you toot that ass up! ijs"
"Marriage is not 50/50...Each one must give 100."
"Be apologetic even if your wrong. Yes, men have to feel needed and wanted."
"Date your mate forever and NEVER mess up today with things from yesterday...Believe me all this is easier said than done but know that it can be done!! When you love a person with ever fiber in your body you will always be willing to go all in!"
"It takes nothing out of you toot that ass up! ijs"
"Marriage is not 50/50...Each one must give 100."
"Be apologetic even if your wrong. Yes, men have to feel needed and wanted."
"Date your mate forever and NEVER mess up today with things from yesterday...Believe me all this is easier said than done but know that it can be done!! When you love a person with ever fiber in your body you will always be willing to go all in!"
Carla's advice to the single ladies...
"Be the person you want to attract..."
"Know that YOU can't change a man..."
"Give him something to want to come home to--meal...clean house..not initially nagging him..."
"Always make your man feel needed. That doesn't mean be needy."
"Let him be right sometimes."
"Also, try not to make him feel less of a man. That ego thing is fragile."
"Make sure he LOVES the Lord."
"Watch how he treats his mom, and overall disposition towards women."
"Be nurturing...Be forgiving (very hard to do)..."
"Be a lady...display qualities that would make him proud to have you..."
"Understand that in a marriage or any relationship, constant maintenance is involved..."
"Not everyday is perfect, but you make a choice and commitment to be there."
"If you wouldn't want to have kids with him, don't sleep with him."
"Know that YOU can't change a man..."
"Give him something to want to come home to--meal...clean house..not initially nagging him..."
"Always make your man feel needed. That doesn't mean be needy."
"Let him be right sometimes."
"Also, try not to make him feel less of a man. That ego thing is fragile."
"Make sure he LOVES the Lord."
"Watch how he treats his mom, and overall disposition towards women."
"Be nurturing...Be forgiving (very hard to do)..."
"Be a lady...display qualities that would make him proud to have you..."
"Understand that in a marriage or any relationship, constant maintenance is involved..."
"Not everyday is perfect, but you make a choice and commitment to be there."
"If you wouldn't want to have kids with him, don't sleep with him."
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